To wish you are someone else is to waste the person you are.
Today’s Daily Prompt: What’s the best (or rather, worst) backhanded compliment you’ve ever received? If you can’t think of any — when’s the last time someone paid you a compliment you didn’t actually deserve?
Most of my students’ parents have said to me in the past that ‘my child’s improvements have all been because of your help’. While I am extremely grateful for the compliment, I genuinely feel that I do not deserve it. I believe that children’s development is influenced by a number of factors. In schools, teachers, teaching assistants, lunchtime organisers, bus drivers, security guards, their peers and of course, their parents and care-givers all have a hand in their development. Any improvement- no matter how small or huge- is influenced by a lot of people. Children’s teachers may teach them how to read, but the likelihood of this skill to be learned quickly and retained is influenced by parents’ (and the child’s) efforts to practice and reinforce it.
I always remind families that they – especially the children themselves – are also responsible for the children’s overall development. This gives the students and families a sense of control which they ultimately have. I understand that we as educators have a large role to play in shaping the kids’ futures, I am fully aware that we are only a small piece of the puzzle.
Here’s an advice on how to make the people around you happy:
From today, start treating other people (even strangers) with the exact same warmth that you would your best friend. Compliment them on their looks, their clothes. Let them know how they are adding to your general positive outlook and well-being.
Smile at people. Say ‘thank you’ a bit louder and with a smile. Smile and greet almost everyone from your postman to your family. Make them feel appreciated.
Remember that making other people happy has been found to halve stress levels!!